Like most of you undoubtedly are, I'm addicted to the Internet in a way that my saner family and friends don't understand. I'm the sort of person who checks their email within ten minutes of getting up in the morning. I scored 10/10 on the Internet Micro-Celebrity quiz. I think LOLcats are hilarious. And I'm expected to go without this vice for nine days?
I started remembering those awful times during college when my nasty Gateway computer would break down, or when the college IT department would "discover a virus" making its way around the dorms and shut off our connection. They were awful times. Fifty-eight television channels to choose from and nothing made up for not being able to access AIM. Both times I've moved into a new apartment, I've stressed about whether or not I'll be able to steal wireless off the neighbours before the Comcast guy comes around and hooks me up.
But every now and then, through the cuticle-chewing, it occurs to me that there was a time before the madness. Up until I left for college, I didn't have Internet access at home. We had a computer, but I'd check my email once or twice a week at school and there was no such thing as Facebook. When I had to find out something for an assignment, I'd look it up in a book. I don't think I even know how to do that anymore. I don't know if I can remember how to find things in books. Books do not have Ctrl + F.
However, I somehow managed to graduate from high school without Gmail, Wikipedia and the self-esteem boost that comes from seeing that three people wrote on your wall while you were sleeping. How did I keep in touch with people in different cities and countries? How did I have friends? Did I have friends?
I used to read the newspaper instead of Reddit and, once, I could correctly type both "goggles" and "Google" without any confusion or backspacing. I'm amazed that no one else in my family is at all concerned about this nine day hiatus. They haven't even mentioned it. I'm still torn over whether to even take my laptop, as it may only serve to remind me how much I miss my Firefox; how well it knows me and how much I love its customized tool bars. MSN Messenger will glare at me from its desktop icon. It will try to sign itself in every time I turn it on, and its failure will be solely my fault. I don't think I can take the guilt of seeing the little green and blue blobby icons covered in a nasty red circle. The monitors with the red cross slapped across their little dark screens. It would be like going back to the house I grew up in and finding that the subsequent owners had let it all but fall down.
I'm going to have to stop now, because I have a few errands to run and I've created an ulcer inside my bottom lip. Please don't spam my Facebook wall while I'm away: I'm almost at 1000 comments and I don't want to miss the opportunity to screenshot such an event. In the meantime, I'll leave you with the horror of what I'm going to be doing while I'm forcibly offline:
See you all next Monday!
I wanted to find some good advice for and your separation anxiety, but a quick blog search only returned tips for your dog... But I'm sure you can adapt these, just replace 'dog' with 'yourself' and 'you' with 'computer', Let's try it out!
Here are some commonly recommended ways to treat separation anxiety:
• Place yourself in a smaller space, such as a crate, where you can feel secure when your computer leaves. However, if you panic when crated, do not force yourself in (always good advice).
• Leave yourself an article of clothing that smells like your computer, such as an old T-shirt that your computer recently slept in.
• Teach yourself as many commands as possible, especially "sit," "relax" and "stay." The point of teaching anxious people to relax is to give them confidence. Do the exercise in all the rooms of the house and in the yard. Give praise and treats liberally. -- I like treats...
I sure hope this helps!
You are a God of funny.
There's nothing that anyone can say which will top that advice!
Best.
Comment.
Ever.
This is by far, the most thumbed comment I've ever made. Screw well-thought resource articles or cogent discussions -- I'm sticking to humor.
That's a good life-strategy as well.
Don’t do it. I tried it once and it was horrible.
The first twenty-four hours are totally fine. You feel like you're getting a cold. You have a lot of mucus in the back of your throat. You get really sleepy. You yawn a lot. You crash for, like, fourteen hours.
The next day is terrible. That's when the physical problems start: constantly everything just flowing out of you. You feel achy, twitchy. You can't focus. The restlessness is intolerable.
Every nerve ending is flared up. Everything feels raw. The wind blows and it hurts. You can't stand wearing clothes. You can't stand not wearing clothes.
I didn't sleep for like three days. I'd have a nap for an hour here and there.
You totally lose touch with the world. You're consumed with this one idea, and that one idea is: You need to go get online because this isn't working. Your body sends that message over and over.
I felt utterly stripped of joy. Everything was flat. I tried to live an hour at a time. I'd say, Well, in fifteen minutes I'm going to eat an ice-cream sandwich. Maybe that will be good. Of course it's not true, but you play this game with yourself. Whatever you can do to get through that day.
After the third day, you start to recede. You don't feel like your skin is about to lift off your body quite as much. It actually feels good to take a hot shower. Sitting in front of a heater is nice.
I dreamed about it for a year afterward -- a series of very frustrating dreams in which I'd have half of what I needed. Like, I'd have a computer, but I couldn't get a connection. There were never good dreams of getting online. It was always just out of reach.
You described my vacation to Alaska - without internet access - perfectly.
Ah yes, sounds like you may have experienced phantom limb...
Quite common with regards to mouse and touchpad sensations, but on rare occasions, also keyboard movements as well.
In all cases, it isn't pretty...
and while not fatal, except possibly in extreme cases, it has been reported as being extremely painful.
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!
Perhaps you should just wait a year before taking a vacation...
by then Apple will have introduced the iChip, which will be implanted into your cerebral cortex and not only acts as a built in iPod and iPhone, but includes plugins and extensions for all of the other key brain functions:
Either way Jane, we'll all be pulling for your safe and happy return. I'm sure there has to be some medication for this kind of thing as well. I mean, after all, if there is medication that can keep you up, or it up, there darn well ought to be something for ODD (Offline Disconectiveness Disorder)!
9 days off? I wish i could get 9 hours off just now....
Totally appreciate what you're saying. Every time I take a week off:
1. some new fad starts I miss the boat blogging on
2. Page Rank happens
3. Webmasterworld goes nuts over something
4. My blog gets spammed silly
5. A client's site goes wonky
6. Someone wants to talk to me, not my team
7. Tens of people decide to comment on my blog and then bugger off cause I've not replied
...but there's always something pleasant to return to and I normally get the chance to get rid of the bags under my eyes :)
I have the same problem whereby whenever I type "blob" or "blobby" I always instinctively type "blog" or "bloggy" first. Stupid fingers!
Of particular use when typing "Snoop Blobby blob"
Ah. I've missed your witty insights ftb. You been too important to drop your wisdom here recently?
Society is getting to the point where internet addiction will become a national epidemic. People will be selling themselves on street corners just to get on Digg.
I like to use the interwebs in my brain -- I think my mom used to call it my imagination. It is a magical place where everyone loves my websites.
Rest easy Jane.
Looks like others have survived the separation and lived to tell about it. But Rand has a point.... I'll check into mobile options for Mozzers who want to climb Everest. Or hang out in Idaho.
Jane, Rand recommended a satellite dish connection, but unless you are Ninja Turtle and have a place on your back to secure the dish it leaves you kind of static.
Try https://www.globalstar.com/en/ this will make you mobile even on top of Mount Everest…
I bet you took your laptop and drove around until you found an Internet cafe, Kinkos, or Starbucks. Oh the withdrawal of it all..Reminds me of when we were traveling via RV years ago on the way to Alaska in the remotest part of British Columbia. Getting a brief dial up connection was like Christmas.
Enjoy Idaho. It has some beautiful places, especially around Virginia City and near Yellowstone.
Starbucks? Kinko's? There's only the Tamrack hardware store at Nordman... and I'm pretty sure they're still using Windows 3.1.
Jane, very funny! I had to submit this to Digg.
oh hai Jane,
I am ins your holidayz stealing your internet ;)
Enjoy the time away from the computer. I just got back from 10 days in Hawaii and I forced my self not to bring my laptop. After 2 years of not a day without checking email, serps, etc - a day or so later of not computer I was fine. I actually got to read a real book made of paper on Kailua beach.
I think you will enjoy your holiday more if you are not tempted to check email, IM, etc throughout the day. You'll spend more time with loved ones actually talking and enjoying their company.
And, your email will be waiting for you patiently...
Five Things To Do With A PC When You Have No Internet ConnectionThese are pretty lame.....I guess you can always play 'mindsweeper'!
Susan and I are headed to northern Michigan in a week or so. No internet there either. At least they've got a special deal with the power company to get electricity during the summer. I hear the thing to do is sit outside the library and steal wireless (as long as you're not visiting any blacklist sites...)
At least they have a roller rink. Fortunately I don't suffer from lower back pain when I hit the floor with quad skates.
Jane, I almost feel bad enough for you to buy you a satellite web connection... It's only ~$500 + $99/month with a min. 12 month stint. I'd say that's worth it to not be away from the Internet for 9 days.
I know - isn't it shocking? I don't know how I'm going to make it through.
I think it's in the best interests of Rand to leave you without Internet access, so that youd have a more thorough relaxation and work more productively afterwards. And he'd save the ~$1.7k!
funny post jane.
i know how you feel. i just moved and had to go a week without internet or cable at my new place. i'd be pacing around, while there were plenty of boxes to unpack, i just didn't know what to do with myself. it's a horrible feeling. the computer was all setup and lonely on my desk. it looked so sad.
but i'm back in action now and know that next time i move i will schedule that appointment with the cable/internet company at least a month in advance so i won't have to go without again.
what are you people doing going to idaho and alaska for vacation anyway???
oh, and thanks for the link to that online id thing, that was cool!
Here you go Jane: https://tinyurl.com/2543pj
I'm so hooked, it's just ridiculous! The only thing the iPhone did was to get me spending 15 to 16 hours a day online, instead of just 10 to 14. I now surf the Web in bed, while relaxing in a hammock, during slow moments at clubs and shows....
I've got Mercury in my charts, I'm addicted to books and screens. I've got information gene. It's too fast paced and exciting to sleep, these days.
And Rand... I've seen enough of your blog posts with a 2:47 AM time stamp to know you've been burning the midnight oil, too!
Have a great trip, my thoughts...
"Northern Idaho??? WTF????"
"You wait ten minute before checking your email????"
"Books do not have Ctrl + F" <--- Nice
Enjoy the horrific calm of nature, and if you get really stressed just pretend you are playing a video games. They aren't trees, They are a collection of pixels.
It takes ten minutes to take out the dog and start making coffee :D
*can't. tear. self. away. from. keyboard*
I know how you can get internet access in Northern Idaho....The process is a little complicated so I'll have to come back and post about it when I have some more free time.....check back in a day or so :p